ICIAIW Tools for Reflection
Reset to Rise
12 weeks of self discovery and positive power
Meet your instructor
I’m Louis Byrne — a celebrity hairdresser, creative, DJ, and the founder of I Can, I Am, and I Will.
But before all that, I’m a working-class lad who’s lived it — the highs, the lows, the silence, the struggle, and the search for identity.
I’ve battled addiction, grief, HIV, and the weight of trying to fit into a world that didn’t reflect me.
And through it all, I found one truth: the power to change starts within.
This course isn’t fluff. It’s not just a “positive vibes” thing.
It’s a mindset shift I built from the ground up — something that’s helped me rebuild, rewire, and rise again.
It’s the exact method I’ve used with young people, stylists, creatives, schools, and big-name brands — and it works.
I created this Reset Plan to help you cut through the chaos, take a breath, and get real with yourself.
I’ll guide you step-by-step — honest, open, and straight-talking — through a process that reconnects you with who you are, what you’re doing, and why you’re here.
This is about reflection. This is about power.
This is about you — rising up as the person you already are underneath it all.
Let’s get to work.
You ready?
Reset to rise
12-Week Reset Plan: Reset to Rise
By Louis Byrne
From the ICIAIW Method
Whats my purpose? who am i? and what the fuck am i doing here?
for just £1 per month
This is your invitation to stop, reflect, and realign.
The 12-Week Reset Plan is a step-by-step journey to help you clear out the noise, reconnect with yourself, and rise with purpose.
Whether you’ve lost your spark, hit a wall, or just need direction — this plan gives you the tools to reset from the inside out.
We go one week, one chapter at a time. You don’t need to be perfect, you just need to show up.
You’ll work through 12 powerful themes — rooted in mindset, creativity, self-awareness, and action — all designed to help you get honest, get grounded, and get going.
Each week you’ll:
Focus on one simple theme
Reflect with guided prompts
Reset with real-life tools
Move forward with intention
You’ll ask the questions:
Who am I, really?
What am I here for?
How do I step into my power and purpose — right now?
This isn’t about being fixed — you’re not broken.
This is about finding your fire again and taking back your direction.
“Let’s strip it back, switch it on, and reset to rise.”
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Stop to Start
Learn how to pause with purpose. Create space to reflect, reset, and lay the foundation for change.
Learn how to pause with purpose. Create space to reflect, reset, and lay the foundation for change.
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What’s taking up space in your mind, your day, your energy — that you didn’t choose?
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The Reset Check-in
What do I need right now — emotionally, physically, mentally — that I’ve been ignoring?
What do I need right now — emotionally, physically, mentally — that I’ve been ignoring?
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Your Quiet Power
What do I need right now — emotionally, physically, mentally — that I’ve been ignoring?
What do I need right now — emotionally, physically, mentally — that I’ve been ignoring?
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Where are You Going and Why
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Who Am I
Strip it back. Ask the big question. Dig deep and start reconnecting with your real identity — not the one shaped by others.
Strip it back. Ask the big question. Dig deep and start reconnecting with your real identity — not the one shaped by others.
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What labels have I been given, and which ones have I outgrown?
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Where did I come from, and what did I learn?
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Is this belief mine or was it handed to me?
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If I stripped it all back… what’s true for me now?
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Owning your story.
Your past doesn’t define you, but it’s part of your power. This week, we reflect without shame and begin to reclaim our truth.
Your past doesn’t define you, but it’s part of your power. This week, we reflect without shame and begin to reclaim our truth.
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Who has tried to write my story for me?
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What parts of my story have I been hiding or ashamed of?
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How can my story help me and others?
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What does owning my story look like moving forward?
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The Power of Belief
What you believe about yourself shapes everything. Let’s identify and rewrite the limiting beliefs holding you back.
What you believe about yourself shapes everything. Let’s identify and rewrite the limiting beliefs holding you back.
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Which beliefs are holding me back — and how can I challenge them?
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How do my beliefs shape what I do — or don’t do?
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What new beliefs do I want to build to support who I want to be?
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How will believing in myself change my future?
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I Can I Am and I Will
Learn how to use affirmation with action. This is your reset mantra — repeat it, believe it, live it.
Learn how to use affirmation with action. This is your reset mantra — repeat it, believe it, live it.
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Who am I — beyond my job, my trauma, or my past?
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What am I willing to do — today — to move toward who I want to be?
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How does saying ‘I Can, I Am, and I Will’ shift my energy?
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What does it look like to live “I Can, I Am, and I Will” — every day?
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Boundaries and Balance
Say no to what drains you and yes to what fuels you. Create space for your needs and non-negotiables.
Say no to what drains you and yes to what fuels you. Create space for your needs and non-negotiables.
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What Am I Saying Yes To That I Don't Really Mean
Where in my life am I saying “yes” when I really mean “no”?
Where in my life am I saying “yes” when I really mean “no”?
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Create Your Non-Negotiables
What do I need to feel safe, grounded, and well in my life — emotionally, physically, mentally?
What do I need to feel safe, grounded, and well in my life — emotionally, physically, mentally?
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What boundary do I need to communicate — and to whom?
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What does balance look like in my life — on my terms?
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Vision and Values
What matters to you? Get clear on your personal values and begin to build a vision that actually fits who you are.
What matters to you? Get clear on your personal values and begin to build a vision that actually fits who you are.
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Define Your Core Values in Your Own Words
What do my top values actually mean to me — not just as words, but as ways of living?
What do my top values actually mean to me — not just as words, but as ways of living?
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What Doesn't fit Anymore
What parts of my life no longer align with my values — and what needs to shift?
What parts of my life no longer align with my values — and what needs to shift?
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What kind of life do I want to live — based on what I truly value?
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How can I start living in alignment with my values — today, not someday?
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Purpose and Progress
You don’t have to have it all figured out. We’ll focus on small, purpose-driven steps that lead to real change.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. We’ll focus on small, purpose-driven steps that lead to real change.
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Where have I grown, even if it didn’t feel like progress at the time?
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What does progress actually look like for me — right now?
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How do I keep showing up — even when I don’t feel ready or “good enough”?
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What’s one small step I can take this week — in service of my purpose?
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Creativity and Expression
Tap into your creativity as a healing and expressive tool. No rules — just release.
Tap into your creativity as a healing and expressive tool. No rules — just release.
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What if creativity isn’t about being good — but about feeling better?
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Express Without Permission
What do I need to express today — without needing to get it right, or get it validated?
What do I need to express today — without needing to get it right, or get it validated?
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Build Your Expression Ritual
How can I create regular space to express myself — with no pressure, no perfection, and no audience?
How can I create regular space to express myself — with no pressure, no perfection, and no audience?
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Create From the Inside Out
What wants to come through me today — without rules, without shame, without needing to make sense?
What wants to come through me today — without rules, without shame, without needing to make sense?
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Connection and Community
You’re not meant to do this alone. Explore how to build stronger, healthier relationships — starting with yourself.
You’re not meant to do this alone. Explore how to build stronger, healthier relationships — starting with yourself.
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Where do I perform connection — and where do I feel safe to be real?
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Relationships as Mirrors
What do my relationships reflect about how I see myself — and what I believe I deserve?
What do my relationships reflect about how I see myself — and what I believe I deserve?
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Boundaries That Honour You
Where do I need to protect my energy — not to push people away, but to stay true to myself?
Where do I need to protect my energy — not to push people away, but to stay true to myself?
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What kind of connection do I need now — and how do I make space for it?
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Stop looking out there. Come back home to yourself.
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Fear Voice vs. Trust Voice
How do I tell the difference between what’s fear and what’s real knowing?
How do I tell the difference between what’s fear and what’s real knowing?
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What is my body trying to tell me — and am I willing to listen?
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What is my body trying to tell me — and am I willing to listen?
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Build the Ritual of Return
How do I keep coming back to my own truth — no matter what life throws at me?
How do I keep coming back to my own truth — no matter what life throws at me?
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Rise and Repeat I Can I Am and I Will
You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be present. And you need to keep showing up.
You don’t need to be perfect. You need to be present. And you need to keep showing up.
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Build Your Personal Reset Ritual
What brings me back to me — and how can I build it into my every day?
What brings me back to me — and how can I build it into my every day?
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Reclaim - Rewrite Your Self Identity
Who do I say I am — now that I’m no longer living by survival, shame, or silence?
Who do I say I am — now that I’m no longer living by survival, shame, or silence?
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Recommit - Define Your Non-Negotiables
What are the small, daily choices that keep me aligned, honest, and well?
What are the small, daily choices that keep me aligned, honest, and well?
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Rise and Repeat Create Your Integration Plan
How do I keep this work alive — without pressure, shame, or perfection?
How do I keep this work alive — without pressure, shame, or perfection?
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Why 12 weeks?
Because real change takes time — but not forever.
Twelve weeks gives you the sweet spot: long enough to build a habit, short enough to stay focused.
This is about momentum, not perfection. You move forward week by week — reflect, reset, rise.
The Benefits:
Creates a clear rhythm and structure
Builds emotional stamina and mindset muscle
Allows space between insights and actions
Keeps accountability strong without burning out
The Science Behind 12 Weeks:
Habit Formation:
Research shows it takes on average 66 days to form a lasting habit — that’s about 10 weeks. (University College London, 2009)
By 12 weeks, your mindset, routines, and identity can shift significantly.
Neuroplasticity:
The brain changes with repeated reflection and action.
A 12-week structure allows for sustained rewiring of thought patterns, helping you create new defaults around self-worth, purpose, and resilience. (Harvard Medical School, 2016)
Behaviour Change Models:
In cognitive behavioural therapy and coaching, 8–12 week plans are standard because they give enough time for self-awareness, behaviour tracking, and transformation — without overwhelm.
Mental Health Outcomes:
Structured journaling over 12 weeks improves mood, memory, emotional regulation, and stress response. (APA & Journal of Affective Disorders, 2023)
“Twelve weeks gives you a fighting chance to stop surviving and start thriving.
We go step-by-step, theme-by-theme — no rush, no fluff, no nonsense.
This is you showing up for yourself, one week at a time.”
FAQs
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Do I need to be in a “bad place” to do this course?
Nope. This isn’t just for crisis mode — it’s for anyone who feels stuck, disconnected, or ready to level up. Whether you’re rebuilding or just realigning, this reset gives you tools to pause, reflect, and move with purpose.
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I’ve done therapy / healing work already. Will this still help me?
Absolutely. Reset to Rise isn’t therapy — it’s integration. It helps you take what you know and live it. The daily prompts, science-backed insights, and rituals support sustainable, everyday shifts. No fluff. Just forward.
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What if I miss a day or fall behind?
You’re human. Life happens. This course is resettable — pick up where you left off. There’s no pressure to be perfect. The power is in returning. Again and again. That is the practice.
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What exactly do I get when I sign up?
You get access to the full 12-week program: 60 daily prompts, tools, science-based insights, a downloadable workbook journal, and lifetime access to revisit any time. It's a full mind, body, and soul reset — on your terms.